Three takeaways
- Pressure and withdrawal may be reinforcing each other.
- Treating only one person’s reaction as the whole problem.
- Chasing harder or withdrawing longer.
- Agree on a pause length and a specific time to return so space does not become abandonment.
Video transcript
You said: Pressure and withdrawal may be reinforcing each other. Treating only one person’s reaction as the whole problem. Try this: Agree on a pause length and a specific time to return so space does not become abandonment.
