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BOUNDARIES · 0:18

I keep explaining my boundary until they approve it.

“I keep explaining my boundary until they approve it.” You may be seeking permission for a limit that does not require agreement. Try this: State the limit once, name what you can offer, and stop negotiating against yourself. What boundary is hardest to say clearly? Self-help only — not therapy, diagnosis, or emergency support.

Three takeaways

  1. You may be seeking permission for a limit that does not require agreement.
  2. Believing the boundary is valid only when the other person likes it.
  3. Adding more reasons after the limit has already been stated clearly.
  4. State the limit once, name what you can offer, and stop negotiating against yourself.

Video transcript

You said: I keep explaining my boundary until they approve it. You may be seeking permission for a limit that does not require agreement. Believing the boundary is valid only when the other person likes it. Try this: State the limit once, name what you can offer, and stop negotiating against yourself.