Three takeaways
- A short or unclear message leaves space for your brain to fill in the blanks.
- Uncertainty often feels urgent even when the evidence is incomplete.
- Do not treat tone guesses as proof of intent.
- List what was actually said, what you are assuming, and one calm question you can ask.
Video transcript
You said: A short or unclear message leaves space for your brain to fill in the blanks. Uncertainty often feels urgent even when the evidence is incomplete. Try this: List what was actually said, what you are assuming, and one calm question you can ask.
